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Mike Males's avatar

I largely agree on the need to tell a story (my reporter editors were adamant on that) and that those future-facers adept in alternative media (all online) will increasingly diverge from those "present biases" (I call them contemporists) trapped in traditional media (some offline, some online).

I believe this split will intensify in the coming decade, with resulting political division and even violence the create an entire new global order. We are not getting out of this easily. Gen Z's extraordinary tolerance for diversity may help us get through coming crises, and we are still assessing what Gen Alpha will bring.

If the Haidts who get so much attention would just apply their ideas positively to balance online and offline lives among diverse populations of all ages, he could be a positive force. Right now, he is destructive, a throwback to antiquated bigotries.

Yes, Haidt tells a good, classic "story" -- we brave parents and elders rising to "protect our children" from evil online predators -- but it is a false narrative. That's not where Gen Z's problem lies. Haidt-driven panics are excusing authorities from facing real threats the young.

Steven Gordon's avatar

I don’t think that the Left or the Right hate their kids, I actually think that in the current time kids and their parents enjoy spending time together much more then in the heyday of poor kid parent relations in decades like the 1960s, 1970’s and 1980’s. Back then parents as benevolent dictators were common as was kids getting out of the house and on their own by the time they were 18. And Haidt seems to prefer that these days return, as he loves the independence and outside play that kids had back then. While there is much blame going around on the state of the youth, this blame seems more directed towards social media and screens then the kids themselves, unlike in the decades of the 20th century.

If anything, the fact that the Left and the Right are constantly at each other throats, especially Maga and Progressives, is making it hard for parents to band together and dictate to their kids the way Haidt and ally Jonathan T. Rothwell want. Look at the manosphere… I previously searched for parent anger on a Manosphere reddit about a year ago, since young men on the Manosphere seem so miserable, but yet I hardly found any parent anger, which was a shock until I started thinking, what if that’s the whole point. There’s all kinds of Divides, from the Left Right Divide to the gender Divide. But yet there’s barely any kid parent Divide, because a kid and parent Divide works in reverse of other Divides. To put it another way, Haidt and his allies want greater separation of kids from their parents, no matter what the cost. But for this to happen there will have to be very particular conditions. One of the conditions is that parents are more like other parents. When parents see differences from other parents, this prevents a unified front of parents in opposite to their kids. Sooner or later, Haidt and his allies will figure this out, and start preaching for Divides like the political Divide to lower. They’ll say to please think about the children. And, as has been shown, What Haidt wants, Haidt gets.

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